Every keepsake begins with something meaningful — a small piece of a moment, a memory, or a connection you want to carry close. I work with a range of inclusions, and each one behaves differently once it is held within the permanent, protective bonding method used to form your keepsake stone. This guide is here to help you choose what feels right for you, with clarity and honesty about how each material performs over time.
Cremation Ashes (Recommended)
Cremation ashes are the most stable and reliable inclusion.
They are:
- dry and non‑reactive
- naturally long‑lasting
- ideal for both Simple Moments and Precious Moments pieces
- suitable for very small or delicate settings
Cremation ashes hold their appearance beautifully and do not shift, mould, or discolour.
Once cremation ashes are fused within the keepsake stone, they naturally deepen in tone. This gentle darkening is completely normal — similar to how ashes appear when they become slightly damp — and it does not affect the safety or stability of your inclusion. Each stone settles into its own soft, natural pattern, making every piece quietly unique.
If you have ashes available, they are always the most dependable choice.
Alternative Options
What happens if your loved one was not cremated? Your keepsake can still hold deep meaning even without cremation ashes. Some people choose to include a small amount of soil from a meaningful place — such as a gravesite, a garden they loved, or somewhere that holds a shared memory. What matters most is choosing a material that feels right for your story and the connection you want to carry close.
If you’re unsure what to send, you’re always welcome to reach out. I’m here to help you choose an inclusion that feels true to your moment.
Hair or Fur
Hair and fur can create a soft, meaningful look, but they behave differently depending on the design.
They are:
- stable and non‑reactive
- suitable for most keepsake stones
- more challenging in very small shapes
- sometimes visually uneven when trimmed
Because hair must be cut to fit inside the setting, the trimmed edges may be visible, especially in tiny designs. Fine or short strands may appear softer or more scattered once bonded.
Hair and fur are beautiful options — just be aware that the final look is more organic and less controlled than cremation ashes.
Flowers & Organic Materials
These can be included, but they come with important considerations.
Even when dried thoroughly, organic materials may:
- fade or lose colour over time
- react to UV exposure
- shift or break down slightly within the bonding material
- behave unpredictably due to natural oils or moisture
For these reasons, I generally recommend choosing cremation ashes or hair instead.
However, if flowers or petals hold deep meaning for you, I’m always open to working with them — as long as you’re aware of the natural changes they may experience.
Fabric & Threads
Fabric behaves similarly to hair:
- it must be cut to fit
- only small fibres or threads can be included
- the original shape or weave will not remain intact
- colours may soften slightly once bonded
Fabric can be a lovely option when it carries emotional significance, but the final appearance will be subtle and textural rather than clearly recognisable.